What some take a lifetime in denying, do some of us, need to repeat the same pattern till we suddenly change, overnight? Or do we willingly decide to change that very part of ourselves?
Do the mistakes become,
A- 'I did it my way,'
B- ' I don't understand'
C- 'I think I'm right'
D- All of the above
Or do we accept, the part of us which feels astray, confront it, and accept it, which sets it free, or rather confirms its existence, and henceforth allows it to rest in peace.
What about the people involved in this mistake making, it's not only our regrets, but also the fact that our mistakes might have hurt somebody else, intent or no intent, and we might continue to make the same unless we take charge, and decide to change, for the higher good of all.
Is it a belief, an insecurity, or a pure misunderstanding of relationships. Does it involve people who are now 50, and hence don't need to change, people are who 20, and too busy with their lives, people who are 40 and think they have enough experience to know what's right, or just all of us, who lack to give deep importance to the concept of relationships. Or people who are emotionally looking for some gain and remain blind to themselves, much like the three blind mice. Mouse 1 believing that such games are his/her immense power to get everything he/she wants, since of course it only includes the Best ( At another person's expense). Mouse 2 believing that such behavior is how one is truly free and makes oneself happy. ( At another person's expense), Mouse 3 believes priding a large score sheet is as near as a happy family as can be. ( Ofcourse once again at another person's expense).
Relationships, are a general code of behavior, they involve what we think about them, what we feel about them, and henceforth how we act. When one changes, do we land up in a gold-mine, and discover that all our relationships change, because we broke a habit, or is it just a matter of good ole timing, and the effects it has on our planets, our zodiac signs, and destiny plans.
Does change become good when we surrender to it, forced to it, or plainly woken up to it coincidently.
Whilst some may stick to their stagnancy, I'd like to believe that by changing not only are we loving ourselves further, but we grow, in ways we didn't know existed, and hence as spiritualists all over the world would say, we provide a ripple of positive energy, which benefits the Universe as a whole!
And everyday we get closer, to knowing what works, what doesn't, and what needs to be let go of.. so that something better can come in!
