As we grow older, do we merely learn to do what's best for us.
From choosing the right from that which doesn't work.
Does life enable us to figure out to make decisions based on our own needs at a particular point in time and allow them to naturally overcome another's.
After all the mistakes, the thoughts and the constant recollection of memories of experiences long gone, is there ever any room for improvement without all those consistent badgering thoughts?
When a relationship goes wrong, why is that we as women think about all of our flaws without once being able to consider the truth behind it all. Is it because we don't know the truth yet, are unable to allow it to be part of our reality or just resisting to grow and continue learning to improve how we treat ourselves.
When all is done and said, without any room for closure, why do we stick in a closet surrounded by that which doesn't suit us anymore and even ceases to exist. It's just a memory and yet we fail to get that memory out of our heads and make it appear much better than it ever really was. The general media suggests that women keep trying to work out things which appear to have no open door. And if the door is closed and there is no room for questions, isn't it so much easier to just let go of it all! When it's all so much easier said than done, and the words don't justify one's feelings or another's actions perhaps we become our own closure, our own friend, our own want of what we expected from another. The situation fails to remain a broken experience with a broken want but transforms itself to a stronger heart which continues to remain soft on the inside regardless of the destruction one once experienced.
I love life... and perhaps there is nothing grander than to see yourself transform and love yourself further in ways that reflect on your actions, thoughts and your need to do what's best for you in any circumstance, situation and relationship which may surround.
From choosing the right from that which doesn't work.
Does life enable us to figure out to make decisions based on our own needs at a particular point in time and allow them to naturally overcome another's.
After all the mistakes, the thoughts and the constant recollection of memories of experiences long gone, is there ever any room for improvement without all those consistent badgering thoughts?
When a relationship goes wrong, why is that we as women think about all of our flaws without once being able to consider the truth behind it all. Is it because we don't know the truth yet, are unable to allow it to be part of our reality or just resisting to grow and continue learning to improve how we treat ourselves.
When all is done and said, without any room for closure, why do we stick in a closet surrounded by that which doesn't suit us anymore and even ceases to exist. It's just a memory and yet we fail to get that memory out of our heads and make it appear much better than it ever really was. The general media suggests that women keep trying to work out things which appear to have no open door. And if the door is closed and there is no room for questions, isn't it so much easier to just let go of it all! When it's all so much easier said than done, and the words don't justify one's feelings or another's actions perhaps we become our own closure, our own friend, our own want of what we expected from another. The situation fails to remain a broken experience with a broken want but transforms itself to a stronger heart which continues to remain soft on the inside regardless of the destruction one once experienced.
I love life... and perhaps there is nothing grander than to see yourself transform and love yourself further in ways that reflect on your actions, thoughts and your need to do what's best for you in any circumstance, situation and relationship which may surround.
